The shit I dealt with over the weekend!

So for almost 2 weeks my mother was sick.. I tried to stay as far away as possible from her contagious ass.. But the last week she was acting all needy.. She would come sit up under me, ask me to come sit in the room with her.. So a couple times I would be like I'll come in there, just don't get too close or breathe on me.. So just as she started feeling good, guess what?! I get fucking sick!!! Coughing, snot clogging my nasal passages and my sinuses all fucked up! All this happens days before I'm supposed to go to NY to see my lil sis & Mr. Fiasco. Yes, Lupe! I took huge gulps of Nitequil daily so I could be well enough for the travels to NY.. Come Thursday night, I was feeling good.. But Amber insisted that I cancel the trip because I couldn't risk getting my grandma sick.. I was uber pissed about missing the Lupe concert, but even more pissed cuz I haven't seen my sis since the beginning of September. But the NY trip has been rescheduled for the first weekend of October and has been named "The Pre-Bday Celebration" since her 22nd birthday is on the 13th! I would give more details of what type of fun we are going to have that weekend but, she reads my blog!

Well since I couldn't go to NY this past weekend, me & mom went out on Saturday to the Umoja Fest over in Portsmouth. Nothing good came of this except me picking up some things for Amber, getting some shea butter & natural soaps. I can definitely say this about people from "Across the water": They have fucking staring problems & hate is a lifestyle for them. While walking thru the fest, checking out the tents there was this big, black chick who had THE worst glued/geled/spritzed ponytail in with some horrible makeup on, and of course an outfit that a girl of her size shouldn't have had on; was staring at me like I walked up to her and picked a fight about the previous. I was just walking casually thru the fest minding my business with my mama. So she rolled her eyes, looked me up and down and was just pissed with me FOR NO OBVIOUS REASON!! I wish I had enough hood in me to say something like: Bitch don't be mad I dress in clothes that fit! or Heffa just cuz my hair is swaying in the breeze and yours is stuck to your head don't mean you can stare! So I pointed her out to my mom saying how bad I wanted to twitpic her hair, but mom was like HELL NO!! That would of felt so good to my soul for doing that.. Then mom says after I gave her the :( that chick aint have no teeth.. I almost effin died laughing cuz that was MORE ammo for me to take a pic of this girl..

We left the fest and went over to Military Circle Mall.. I swear people in there have fucking issues with people who don't look like them, look as good as them, or something. They will stare all in your face like you are spewing hot garbage on them or something.. That was a total waste of time though..

I ended up spending wayyy too much money because my mom decided I would pay for lunch since I suggested it and I brought some nose rings that I can't even use.. So how was my weekend: uneventful, sad, and blah!

Birthday Weekend...

Hey people!!! Okay just a lil update: been working, having a wonderful time with my boo (everything is kinda gravy but I won't go on about it), did hair one weekend like all weekend long literally, and this weekend is my birthday celebration.

Tuesday night (4.7.09) went to the Wale/UCB/Colin Munroe show at the NorVa. It was cool besides the point that it was the longest concert I ever been to in my life. Even the opening acts were cool especially Kinga Scott. Colin Munroe is a monster, he was playing the drums, playing the keyboard & singing at the same time. Wale was cooln had very high energy. I respect him a lil bit more as an artist after this concert.

Wednesday night (4.8.09) me & lil sis went to the Prime Outlets to pick up some shoes and lipgloss. Got a cute pair of pumps & Chucks. We walked around to the Cosmetic shop and I almost slapped the lady when she said they don't have any of the clear lipglass 3 pack. Like that was the only reason I went there. Oh and lil sis brought me a pack of remi hair. I'm so excited to install that but I'm not sure when I will be able to do that.

The plans for this weekend: party & bullshit, then church Easter Sunday. We're going to The Velvet Lounge Friday night & somewhere else Saturday night.

OHHHH I got a Blackberry (FINALLY!!!!!)

I'll be back after my bday!!!

Changes...

I'm backkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!

Okay some things have changed since the last time:

• A lump of shit got piled on me at work since THEY FREAKIN FIRED THE OFFICE MANAGER!!! Like omfg that was stressful..
• Me & Bestie #2 had a falling out.. We're back to being ok..
• Me & Him had a falling out cuz of things that we're brought to my attention by others.. Since the week of silence has passed, we're back on good terms. Even better than before. He's treating me like I want to be treated (so far...)
• Went to the doctor today and this chick tells me she wants to put me on blood pressure medication. Like OMFG! Then she was telling me what I should eat, what I shouldn't eat, and all that.. Then I realized everything she named under the Ebony Shouldn't Eat category: I fawkin love!! So I just said F' it.. I'm gonna go back to being a vegetarian and start doing a lil exercising..
• Oh another big change: my mom is "seeing" some nigga who we haven't met yet and let me just tell you: that stomps my hide! Her ass is acting like she 20 with no kids.. No ma'am we can't have any whoreish behavior unless it's from us (Ebony & Amber), her 20 something daughters! Like she has a 13 y.o. son at home. How does it look when he looks around and Mom isn't there and it's like 12 am??? Am I the only one who sees it like that?

Anywho, I'll probably be back later to tell you guys of my birthday plans (April 13th is right around the corner) & my summer plans..